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I'm a 33-year-old father and husband born and bred in Massachusetts. I have a beautiful son named Will, a gorgeous wife named MJ who is far too hot to have married me, a dog I love and two cats I put up with. I'm a smart-ass former newspaper reporter with a penchant for turning a phrase, who decided to go corporate and is now enjoying life as a content manager for a website.

This blog is not just another "daddy blog." Sure I write about my son, but these pages are a record of my life. I don't just highlight the fun milestones like first steps, I also chronicle the "other stuff." The fights, the torment and the doubt that inevitably come with being a husband and father. It's not always puppy dogs and rainbows, but it is very real. And often there is beauty in the sadness, redemption in the struggle.

Thank you for checking me out, giving me a try and sticking around for the journey. If you'd like to contact me you can email aaron_gouveia (at) yahoo (dot) com.

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I Resolve to…

You thought this was going to be one of those contemplative New Year’s posts where I dutifully lay out my resolutions to better myself during the next 12 months right? I don’t blame you, the blog world is full of posts like that right now. But what does that list really accomplish? After all, it [...] [...]

Look Out Ladies

First of all, thanks to everyone who sent well wishes our way. I’m happy to report after being hooked up to an IV for several hours, MJ is doing a million times better today. We still don’t know what exactly was wrong, but her Cat scan came back normal (as normal as the female mind can [...] [...]

Happy Freaking New Year

I cannot wait for 2008 to end. MJ is in the emergency room. We had to go there this morning after she suffered a crippling migraine and couldn’t stop throwing up. To make matters worse, it was JAM PACKED with sick people, which made for a 3-hour wait as she nearly passed out from the [...] [...]

Stepping Up

The reigns of the Gouveia household are firmly — albeit temporarily — in my hands. Poor MJ has apparently been hit with the Ebola Virus flu and is so sick it’s not even funny. She was up every hour puking and I’m pretty sure her head was spinning around while projectile vomiting green ooze like [...] [...]

Adventures in Idiocy

It’s been awhile since I bitched and moaned about some of the moms on my parenting message boards. So without further delay, I give you the recent debate regarding whether men, particularly gay men, should be allowed to babysit little girls and vice versa women for little boys. I shit you not… Basically, one of the moms [...] [...]