About Me

Babble.com's Top 50 Dad Blogs of 2011!I'm a 32-year-old father and husband born and bred in Massachusetts. I have a beautiful son named Will, a gorgeous wife named MJ who is far too hot to have married me, a dog I love and two cats I put up with. I'm a smart-ass former newspaper reporter with a penchant for turning a phrase, who decided to go corporate and is now enjoying life as a content manager for a website.

This blog is not just another "daddy blog." Sure I write about my son, but these pages are a record of my life. I don't just highlight the fun milestones like first steps, I also chronicle the "other stuff." The fights, the torment and the doubt that inevitably come with being a husband and father. It's not always puppy dogs and rainbows, but it is very real. And often there is beauty in the sadness, redemption in the struggle.

Thank you for checking me out, giving me a try and sticking around for the journey. If you'd like to contact me you can email aaron_gouveia (at) yahoo (dot) com.

The Outset of Addiction

When you see someone you love start down the road toward addiction, it’s never a good thing. Yesterday, while surrounded by family, I watched him set out down that path. I tried to rationalize it at first. After all, I’m not a narc or anything. I’m not the fun police. I’m a pretty laid back [...] [...]

“Ummm…Where’s Will?”

That’s what MJ said as she sat at the computer and I loaded up the dishwasher. We block off sections of the house using furniture, household objects and family pets to let Will crawl around. I’m not sure what caused us to be so negligent this morning. Maybe it was the blissful silence in the [...] [...]

Fangs!

For two months we’ve been waiting for Will’s upper teeth to come in. Well, the good news is the wait is over. The bad news? He’s a frickin’ vampire! Instead of his top front teeth popping out he’s growing vampire teeth on the both sides. I guess maybe I should’ve had him baptized huh? He’s [...] [...]

Just Show Up

I’ve received a ton of compliments in real life and from people who follow my blog about how I’m a good dad. And you know what, it really has me irritated! I’m not pissed off about the compliments. By all means, keep those coming and feel free to tell me how stunningly handsome I am [...] [...]

Parental Misconduct

The whole family packed up shop on Friday night and headed to my parents’ house an hour away to spend the night. It was good to get out and to see everyone. And I received an added bonus when I went up to my old bedroom and found my journal from when I was just [...] [...]