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By: Stacey@MoAM

Stacey@MoAM — Mon, 12 Jul 2010 14:34:26 +0000

I’m so sorry. I don’t know you, but wish I could hug you and MJ. I cannot imagine going through this. And I don’t believe things happen for a reason, as others have been telling you. I do believe that sometimes, bad things happen to good people. I wish I could say something to you that mattered, but the truth is, no matter how sincere and comforting my words could possible be, it does not change the fact that you are going through this hell. I can only hope that at some point, you will find solace and peace with what has happened. I wish parents never had to experience the loss of a child, born or unborn. I am thinking of your family and I wish you all the best.

By: john cave osborne

john cave osborne — Sun, 11 Jul 2010 22:51:41 +0000

DF, know this, my good man…you could have kept that paragraph in a million times over and i wouldn’t have taken offense, nor would i have offered up some sanctimonious brand of condemnation. remember, i’ve been on your side of the coin. and i’d be lying if i told you i never have any doubts. i do.

besides, there’s an old saying which always makes me smile…Christianity wouldn’t be that bad…if it weren’t for all the Christians! people who say it’s not their spot to judge, yet turn around and do just that? they don’t have a place in my book. regardless of what their beliefs are.

i respect you. and i respect your beliefs. you and i understand who the other is. we have many similarities, and some differences, too. which is a good thing. that’s what makes the world go ’round, no?

thanks for your thoughts, my friend. support feels good. i know i have it from you, just, i’m certain, as you know you have it from me.

By: Daddy Files

Daddy Files — Sun, 11 Jul 2010 17:03:58 +0000

JCO: No, my tone on God isn’t changing at all. I don’t believe. I was simply relaying what many other people are saying to me right now. Honestly I did have a whole paragraph in my first draft that said anyone who believes “God” could do such a thing is absolutely crazy. But then I remembered how many people — many of whom are religious — were sending out prayers and thoughts my way and I deleted it because there’s no need to trample on their goodwill simply because we disagree religiously.

When someone says they’re praying for me I don’t take offense. I don’t believe one lick in prayer but I simply translate that into people are thinking about us and wishing for the best. And that is a very comforting thought.

We’re thinking of you, your sister and your family as well.

By: john cave osborne

john cave osborne — Sun, 11 Jul 2010 13:38:05 +0000

have i noticed your tone on God softening a bit? i could be mistaken, but you mention near the end that God doesn’t give people more than they can handle–that there will be a reason for it. i expected you to remind your readers where you stand on all matters religious. but you didn’t.

i personally believe that what people are telling you is true. as you know, my family is currently dealing with tragedy as well. whatever purpose this tragic time may serve in my life might be totally different from the purpose another affected person might come away with. and that’s part of the beauty. there’s no right answer. it’s all part of our ongoing walk.

i’m so sorry this has happened to you and am continuing to hold your entire family close, both in thought and prayer.